Only having sex in bed can get old pretty fast, especially if you’re in a long-term relationship.
Every now and then, you have to switch it up to keep things ~lit~. You feel me?
And while role-playing is great, as is dirty talk, sometimes, you should just switch locations entirely. I mean, come on, having sex on the kitchen counter shouldn’t just be a thing that happens in movies.
You don’t have to risk everything to spice up your sex life. There are all kinds of places to have fun with your partner in new and exciting ways. Sit down with your man and pick a few of these spots to try or challenge yourselves to make it through the whole list! He’ll love your adventurous side and you’ll feel like your sex life has been transformed.
Here are places you could have sex in your home, aside from your boring bedroom:
5.In the Shower
Having sex in a pool or lake sounds hot, but it actually makes you more susceptible to UTIs and STDS—not to mention that chlorine can make condoms less effective. Yikes. But one safe place to get wet and wild is in the shower. Think shower sex is pretty standard? Let us prove you wrong: Add some lube, and get creative with the tub.
9.On the Stairs
Who knew you had this ideal sex spot in your home all along? May we recommend the standing doggie style? Bend over a few steps up from him so your parts are aligned and he can enter you without having to crouch. You can also have him recline on a step while you straddle him with your back to his chest. Use the step below for leverage so you can stay steady while thrusting. You can also have him reach around for a little extra stimulation. The two of you will never look at stairs the same way again.
10.At a Friend’s Place
One WH reader told us that the hottest place she’s had sex was at her friend’s apartment. Why? Because the walls were super thin and she and her boyfriend had to be “nearly silent.” She said that being really, really quiet “made everything feel so much more urgent and hot.” We couldn’t agree more.
11. At an Event
Whether it’s a wedding, a sporting event, or a big barbeque, there’s something about connecting during a public event that’s super hot, says Morse. During an outing that has enough people to let you sneak off unnoticed, find a bathroom or closet farthest away from the crowd, to lower your chances of getting caught.
12.On the Beach
Beach sex is just inherently romantic, says Morse, which can help women really get in the mood. “Women sometimes need the right atmosphere.” That said, it’s probably best to lay a towel down on the sand to prevent it from getting into tricky areas. And stick to getting busy on land, since salt water can really dry out the skin in your nether regions.