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SHUN THE BEDROOM SMALL! These Are The Other Best Places To Have Sex – Try It!

Only having sex in bed can get old pretty fast, especially if you’re in a long-term relationship.

Every now and then, you have to switch it up to keep things ~lit~. You feel me?

And while role-playing is great, as is dirty talk, sometimes, you should just switch locations entirely. I mean, come on, having sex on the kitchen counter shouldn’t just be a thing that happens in movies.

You don’t have to risk everything to spice up your sex life. There are all kinds of places to have fun with your partner in new and exciting ways. Sit down with your man and pick a few of these spots to try or challenge yourselves to make it through the whole list! He’ll love your adventurous side and you’ll feel like your sex life has been transformed.

Here are places you could have sex in your home, aside from your boring bedroom:


1.In a public park
Public parks are kept up by staff, making them a beautiful place for you to show your guy some love. They’re usually gated at night, but it isn’t too difficult to sneak in; worrying that you might get caught will get your adrenaline pumping. Once you’re there, find a bench or a picnic table, lay back, watch the stars and then make some shooting stars yourself.
2.In the shower or bath
This is the perfect place to play it safe, but still switch up a boring bedroom routine. Whether you try it standing up, on a shower bench, or do it on the tub, get creative and keep the action private. Some people aren’t up for sex outside of their homes but that doesn’t mean they can’t experiment a little inside them.
3.In a car
If you’ve seen the movie A Lot Like Love, you know that having sex in a car doesn’t have to be raunchy and sweaty. Parking the car in a secluded lot or an open field leaves little chance of getting caught and a lot of opportunity for romance. Bring some blankets, roll down the windows and cuddle up in the back seat with your partner.
4.At the office
If you’re lucky enough to have a key to your office, this is the perfect place to get away and get it on with your man. It is every man’s fantasy to see his wife or girlfriend a little tussled up in her heels and button-down shirt? You don’t even have to be into role play to find this one exciting.

5.In the Shower

Having sex in a pool or lake sounds hot, but it actually makes you more susceptible to UTIs and STDS—not to mention that chlorine can make condoms less effective. Yikes. But one safe place to get wet and wild is in the shower. Think shower sex is pretty standard? Let us prove you wrong: Add some lube, and get creative with the tub.

6.In the kitchen
If you’re tired of the bedroom but not ready to venture out of the house, the kitchen can provide some excitement. Whether it’s on the counter or the dining room table, don’t be afraid to get creative in your own home!
7.On the Couch
Maybe you’ve covered this base already, but did you know that the living room staple could actually help you orgasm? Morse says that stacking up the cushions under your lower back makes it more likely that you’ll reach an orgasm. Or you could lean over the side for an awesome twist on the usual doggy style.
8.At a Hotel
Hotel sex is amazing because there isn’t any clean up. You can just check in and it can be all about sex,” says Morse. She suggests getting out of your comfort zone by doing some role-playing (you’re now officially two hot strangers on vacation). If you’re looking for something a little wilder, Morse also says that sex on a private hotel balcony is super hot—you know, if it’s actually private. “No one knows you, it’s dark, you can look over the city, and you’re still close to your room.”

9.On the Stairs

Who knew you had this ideal sex spot in your home all along? May we recommend the standing doggie style?  Bend over a few steps up from him so your parts are aligned and he can enter you without having to crouch. You can also have him recline on a step while you straddle him with your back to his chest. Use the step below for leverage so you can stay steady while thrusting. You can also have him reach around for a little extra stimulation. The two of you will never look at stairs the same way again.

10.At a Friend’s Place

One WH reader told us that the hottest place she’s had sex was at her friend’s apartment. Why? Because the walls were super thin and she and her boyfriend had to be “nearly silent.” She said that being really, really quiet “made everything feel so much more urgent and hot.” We couldn’t agree more.

11. At an Event

Whether it’s a wedding, a sporting event, or a big barbeque, there’s something about connecting during a public event that’s super hot, says Morse. During an outing that has enough people to let you sneak off unnoticed, find a bathroom or closet farthest away from the crowd, to lower your chances of getting caught.

12.On the Beach

Beach sex is just inherently romantic, says Morse, which can help women really get in the mood. “Women sometimes need the right atmosphere.” That said, it’s probably best to lay a towel down on the sand to prevent it from getting into tricky areas. And stick to getting busy on land, since salt water can really dry out the skin in your nether regions.

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