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STOP BITING & CHEWING! How To Give A Great Blow Job

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STOP BITING & CHEWING! How To Give A Great Blow Job

First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice.

Use Your Hands

Sure, it’s called a blow job, but the best blow jobs are really combos of blow jobs and hand jobs. Rub up and down his penis when you come up for air — or while you’re sucking, too.

Don’t Just Focus On the D***

Work the area around his penis – his balls, obviously, the scrotum, the perineum (area between his ball and rectum). Also, feel free to let your hands roam over other sensitive areas around his body too – like  behind his knees,his butt and thighs.

Compliment Him

Think about it: It turns you on when he says he likes what you’ve got going on, right? So do the same. Words can be very sexy and powerful.

Take Control

Men love women to take initiative and control.

Once you’re ready, start slowly and maintain eye contact as you begin to move your hands up and down his shaft.

Fake the deep throat

Many women, despite their age or the number of years they’ve been married, aren’t into deep throating because it can trigger a not-so-fun gag reflex. If this is you, Dr. Greer suggests a slower approach to deep throating, which involves sticking the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth when bobbing on his penis. She says this movement, coupled with the warm and wet feeling of your tongue, will make you feel like you’re deeper in then you actually are. Once you get used to the sensation, you can more easily put his penis further down your throat when you’re ready.

Get to know his “meatus” and “frenulum.”

In other words, focus more of your attention on “the tiny hole of his penis where he ejaculates from” and “the small flap of tissue that connects the tip of the penis to the base.” These two areas are loaded with nerve endings and are often overlooked by even the best blow job givers, according to Dr. Greer and Dr. McDevitt. Plus, the meatus and frenulum are located near the top of his penis, so you’ll get a nice little break if your jaw is getting tired.

Spank him hard when coming up for air

If you’re used to him spanking you all the time, switch it up and give him a nice slap on the ass—he will be pleasantly surprised by your sudden urge to show off your inner Anastasia Steele. And we aren’t talking little taps here and there, either. Dr. Greer says the more force, the better…that is, of course, within reason.

Suck him with an ice cube in your mouth

It’s one of the most classic Cosmo tips ever that you’ve probably been hearing about since your college days, but trust us on this one: you’ll love watching the cool sensation shock him and please him in a way that he’s never been before. If you are curious about exploring with different temps, but are worried an ice cube will be a bit too cold for his downstairs region, try using a cooling lubricant on a condom for starters and ease into playing around with ice.

Use a different speed in the beginning than the end

Most men secretly love when you build up anticipation by taking things slow at the beginning, says Dr. Greer. By controlling the tempo, he is forced to relinquish control over to you. Then, when you can feel his excitement building, Dr. McDevitt says that is the absolute best time to start going faster. The pent up frustration and unexpected teasing will make his release that much more intense.

Nibble more on his head

You’ve already got the up-and-down motion down to a science after all these years, so Dr. Greer suggests challenging yourself by incorporating more strategic bites on the head of his penis in between licks when the timing feels right. The idea of using teeth down there can be pretty darn daunting for him if you’ve never done it before, so Dr. Greer advises to ease into it by taking things slow and talking to him about what kind of pressure feels good and where he would like to be bitten.

Take It Slowly

Nothing about blowjob should be fast, so start slowly by by grazing your mouth against his penis as you continue moving your hands up and down his shaft.

Lip Service

Awkward angles and jaw pain can make it hard to enjoy oral sex, so take some breaks. You could try the “lipstick technique” for a bit: Use your hand to brush the head of his penis against the outline of your lips, taking the head in your mouth between outlines for added lubrication.

Take A Lick

Licking his penis like you’re licking an ice cream cone is a guy-pleaser for a reason: Not only does a regular rhythm help get him even more worked up, but it gives you a chance to get into a groove. “Creating a steady rhythm is what builds and sustains excitement,” explains Marsh.

Try (A Little)Teeth

Adding teeth to the action may sound like a cruel prank, but it can actually be super-sexy, especially when your partner trusts you. Gently glide the surface of your teeth along his shaft, trailing it with your tongue.

Take A Break

If your mouth or jaw is feeling achy, simply take a few moments to kiss or caress his thighs, suggest Michaels and Johnson. “Continuing manual stimulation gives your jaw a rest, and it gives you a chance to check in with your partner and see how you’re both doing.”

Make Some Noise

Want to take the action up a notch? Hum while he’s inside your mouth. “The vibrations create an added sensation,” say Michaels and Johnson. “Holding a vibrator against your cheek can do the same thing.” Finally, don’t underestimate the power of a well-timed moan on your end. “Making erotic sounds isn’t only a turn on for him. It can also get you more excited,” explain Michaels and Johnson.

You Do Me – I Do You

Make the blow job fun for everyone by having him go down on you while you go down on him. 1) He’ll get a great view of your body, 2) you’ll get something out of it, 3) you’ll probably be more into it, too.

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